Last month, I had a conversation with a dear soul who asked, "Is there a reason for everything?" In short, the answer is "Yes." However, we may not be privy to the reason. We may not see the reason, may not understand the reason, or it may be for a reason fulfilled beyond our years of earthly life. When a reason for what is happening seems to escape you or is beyond your grasp, it doesn't mean that the circumstance lacks a reason. God knows.
This brings up God's plan versus our plan. In Isaiah 55:8-9 (NASB), the Scriptures say the following:
"For My thoughts are not your thoughts,
Nor are your ways My ways," declares the Lord.
"For as the heavens are higher than the earth,
So are My ways higher than your ways
And My thoughts than your thoughts. ..."
God is outside of time versus us being in linear time. Even a thousand years is as a day to Him (See 2 Peter 3:8) He has an infinite mind. Our minds are finite. We like to project our thinking onto God like this: "If God did.... and this happened, then wouldn't He ...?" However, that falls flat. Who are we to counsel God? He is so much bigger than we are. And again, God is outside of time. He isn't surprised and doesn't do something to see if something will happen. No, He's outside of time and has already seen it all -- past, present and future. It comes down to whether or not one trusts Him, even when we may not fully know the reason for something or even when we don't even see the reason.
Life (past, present and future) is like a jigsaw puzzle. We get a jigsaw piece with smooth and sharp edges and splotches of color. And we may only see that. It may not make sense. We may see how some pieces all fit together, but only God sees the entire jigsaw puzzle put together and the full picture.
Stephen did not see how his prayer during his stoning (in Acts 7:54-60) would impact things, but he trusted Jesus. Towards the end of his stoning, the following occurred in Acts 7:60-8:1 (NASB):
Then falling on his knees, he cried out with a loud voice, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them!" Having said this, he fell asleep.
Saul was in hearty agreement with putting him to death.
Not only was Stephen's death not held against Saul of Tarsus (who was in "hearty agrement" with Stephen's execution), but more so, Saul became Paul the Apostle, a champion of Christ!
How’s God possibly using you (perhaps even your suffering) in someone else’s life or even your life? Maybe such things offer you a kind service in your time of need because God is giving an opportunity to someone to serve and inclining that heart to serve. And you may simply be a recipient totally unaware about what’s happening behind the scenes. Perhaps someone sees how you have gotten through things and maybe it is an encouragement to that person. And how about your life? How's God using circumstances (even hard ones) in your life? He could be drawing you to Himself. This could be part of your placing faith in Jesus (either for the first time or as part of the ongoing journey). This could be part of your sanctification in becoming more like Jesus now.
Maybe you aren't believing and you wonder why God made you if you aren't believing. Your story isn't finished yet. You aren't reading this by accident. Jesus loves you. Maybe you've been hurt. Maybe you've hurt others. For all of us, both are true. You and I are sinners. Jesus is God and the Way to God. He paid the penalty for our sin at the cross. He wants to give you that free gift.
Life may not make sense sometimes. And it may be hard to see the reason for some circumstances. Yet, even then, that may be the point. God is Sovereign. We make choices, but God ultimately determines the outcome. Proverbs 16:9 (NASB) says, the following:
"The mind of man plans his way,
But the Lord directs his steps."
Man may choose evil, but God can flip it on its head and use the circumstance for good. Consider what it must have been like for the disciples when they saw Romans torturing Jesus and hanging Him on a cross. Yet, look what God did with that! The church flourished in spite of the persecution faced.
And as the hard things -- even evil things -- happen, realize that we live in a fallen and broken world. That's why we need Jesus. Just like we like to try to counsel God or project our thinking onto Him, it's easy to blame God, but He's not to blame. This reminds me of words with which I will conclude -- what A.E. Wilder-Smith wrote in Why Does God Allow It? where he writes the following in Chapter 2: "The Origin of Evil" (pp. 11-18):
Before the Second World War, I often visited the cathedral at Cologne. I admired this beautiful piece of Gothic architecture for hours at a time -- its graceful flying buttresses, magnificent high-domed roof, medieval stained glass windows, and splendid organ. The more I admired the cathedral, the more I found myself admiring the architects and masons who had, over the years, designed and built the whole structure. Obviously, the graceful lines had been carefully planned by experts possessing not only a knowledge of building mathematics but also an understanding of the principles behind beauty. The quality of their craftsmanship was first class in every way. My respect for these builders increased even more as I remembered that they possessed relatively few mechanical devices to facilitate their work. Thus, the superb structure of that cathedral showed something of the superb minds behind it. It could not have come into being without enormous planning and preparation.
During World War II, Cologne suffered perhaps the most intensive air bombardment of any city in Western Europe. Since the cathedral stands almost directly in the railroad station yard (which was the target of frequent heavy bombing), it was often badly hit. I well remember the sadness of seeing the cathedral again in the fall of 1946. Practically every building near it had been razed to the ground, but high above the rubble the two famous towers were still standing. From a distance, the towers still seemed to be intact, but upon coming closer, one could see huge holes in the massive masonry. Hundreds on tons of concrete and bricks had been used to plug one huge hole high up on one tower, partially replacing the masonry which had been blasted away by an aerial bomb. The roof was a shambles, the organ was ruined, and everywhere lay knee-deep piles of indescribable rubble.
This miserable picture of chaos made a deep impression on me as I thought of the earlier order and beauty. While these memories were passing through my mind, I never once connected the current condition of this formerly beautiful building with any inefficiency on the part of the constructing architects or
masons. Nor did I ever begin to doubt the existence of the architects merely because
their handiwork lay before my eyes in shambles.
Actually, the very rubble, the remnants of former beauty, showed how well the architects had planned the now ruined structure. The mighty flying buttresses and the graceful Gothic arches were still there. Even the bombed-out holes in the walls made it obvious how well the architects had designed everything and how expertly the masons had built it. The bombs had laid bare their work, showing how well they had done their jobs. Thus, even the very ruins were witness to the good architects' and masons' work! In some ways, the ruined structure showed even better than the intact one, the perfection of the architects' plans and construction. There was no slipshod stucco or false walls such as are found in many modern buildings. Obviously, no one could accuse the architects of having produced a ruin. In general, it is quite easy to distinguish between the ruined plan and the original plan. Although the cathedral displayed both perfection and ruin, order and chaos, it would be extremely illogical to conclude that there could have been no inventive mind or architect behind it, or that one could no longer hope to recognize any characteristics of the mind or minds behind it.
This bombed cathedral brings to mind the condition of creation today. It certainly is a hopelessly mixed picture of order and chaos, beauty and ugliness, love and hate, all inextricably mixed up with one another.
But, once again, it is illogical to assume that the edifice of creation has no mind or creator behind it. This is the atheist position we mentioned
above. For the atheist maintains that he sees nothing but contradiction in nature. He, therefore, rejects from his world of ideas any thought of a creator behind nature. However, we dare not forget that even the tiniest island of order in the largest sea of chaos demands a creator of that small remaining order.
It is also a mistake to assume that because of the confused picture, no characteristics of a mind behind nature can be distinguished. In fact, one can often recognize design even better in a ruin than in the intact structure (as in the case of the ruined cathedral). The study of cancer cells (a good example of the "ruination" to which living entities can easily be reduced) has laid bare many secrets of the healthy intact cell, which otherwise would not
have been so easily discovered.
Therefore, although creation presents a confused picture of good and evil, it is unreasonable to conclude that no Creator exists and that it cannot reflect His character. Destruction in creation often brings out the quality of the mind behind it better than its original perfect state does.
And yet atheists and agnostics maintain that a look at the world reveals nothing concerning the mind of a Creator, simply because of the hodgepodge of good and bad, the picture of order and disorder, which confuses the issue. Romans I teaches the untenable nature of just this thesis. For the Apostle Paul maintains that illness, death, hate, and ugliness are all mere outward signs of an inward state of universal "ruin." The outward signs of ruin are
easily distinguished from those of health, life, love, and beauty, which still bear testimony to the original condition of things. Even the fallen creation reveals enough of the Maker behind it to bring any intellectually honest person to his knees in thankfulness and worship. For if he sees even the smallest island of love, order, or beauty in the largest sea of hate, disorder, and despair, he must acknowledge those islands with respect and worship for the One who created them.
Whatever the circumstances, at the very least, there is a reason to develop faith. We always have room to grow in faith. Do you have faith in Christ? He is the unchanging One (see Hebrews 13:8). He is trustworthy. He sees how it all fits together. And even if you don't know a particular reason for a specific circumstance, you can know Christ Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He alone can be your anchor in the storm whatever the reason while at the same time being the Reason for life.